The Art of Dominance: Face-Sitting, Tongue Slaves, and Queening Chairs in History
In the intricate tapestry of dominance and submission, face-sitting holds a uniquely powerful position. Often referred to as “queening,” this act is steeped in an elegant and unapologetic display of authority and control. But did you know that this practice, celebrated in BDSM circles today, traces its roots to historical traditions and even architectural ingenuity in the form of queening chairs? Let’s take a journey back to the Middle Ages and explore how face-sitting and tongue servitude embodied power dynamics and sensuality throughout history.
The Role of Tongue Slaves in Medieval Power Dynamics
In medieval times, power was rarely just a matter of battlefields and politics—it was often expressed through intimate dominance. Among the ruling classes and elite circles, dominance extended into the bedroom, where rulers and noblewomen asserted their authority over servants or submissive lovers in deeply symbolic and sometimes practical ways. Tongue slaves, individuals tasked with oral servitude, served as both instruments of pleasure and symbols of a mistress’s absolute control.
This concept wasn’t purely carnal. Oral servitude emphasized submission in its most vulnerable form—an act of worship directed at the seat of feminine power. For noblewomen, allowing a servant or lover the privilege of such proximity reinforced the idea that they were not only untouchable but also deserving of devotion. In this way, tongue slaves were both participants in pleasure and living emblems of the mistress’s unchallenged authority.
Queening Chairs: Thrones of Feminine Power
The queening chair, also known as a “throne of domination,” was an invention that embodied both practical and symbolic value. These ornate chairs were designed with openings in the seat, allowing the dominant partner—often a noblewoman or queen—to sit in a position of power while their submissive knelt beneath them. The act of face-sitting, facilitated by the queening chair, became a physical manifestation of control and adoration.
Far from being a mere tool of intimacy, the queening chair symbolized the exaltation of femininity. It elevated the seated woman—literally and figuratively—placing her on a pedestal where her desires and commands were paramount. The architecture of the queening chair reflected the reverence society often had (and sometimes feared) for feminine power, embodying the themes of domination, submission, and worship.
The Unseen: Power and Taboo
The Middle Ages were a time of contradictions—strict social hierarchies and religious morality often coexisted with hidden practices of indulgence and power exchange. The idea of a noblewoman asserting dominance in such an intimate manner may seem at odds with the period’s puritanical veneer, but it’s a reminder that human desire has always found ways to circumvent societal constraints. In the private chambers of castles and estates, the queening chair became a quiet rebellion against these norms, a way for women to claim their power in both public and private spheres.
The Legacy of Queening and Face-Sitting in BDSM Culture
Today, face-sitting has transcended its historical roots, becoming a celebrated act of dominance in BDSM culture. It continues to embody themes of worship, control, and mutual trust. The symbolism of the queening chair lives on in the furniture and tools used in BDSM play, where the dominant partner asserts their power while the submissive demonstrates their devotion.
For modern dominatrixes, the practice of face-sitting is more than just an act; it’s a ritual of empowerment. It draws on centuries of history, echoing the traditions of the Middle Ages while evolving to fit contemporary expressions of kink and intimacy. Whether performed with a physical throne or simply through the commanding presence of a dominant woman, face-sitting remains a timeless declaration of authority and allure.
Reclaiming the Throne
In the world of BDSM, every act carries meaning, and face-sitting is no exception. Its roots in medieval queening chairs remind us of the enduring power of feminine dominance, a force that transcends time and tradition. For the dominatrix, embracing these historical practices is more than honoring the past—it’s a way to channel the energy of those who ruled before, reclaiming their rightful throne as the embodiment of control and sensuality.
So, the next time you engage in this powerful act, think of the queens and noblewomen of history. Know that you, too, are a part of this lineage, a living representation of dark feminine energy, authority, and the unyielding allure of dominance.